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[/quote]Thank you guys. I am feeling shakey at the moment. I usually get this way after I confront him doubting myself. He has a gift of making me feel like the problem causer. [quote]


SO2

Don't doubt what you know in your heart you had to do.

You do not want or need to live like this you do deserve better.

Listen to Cat she has wise words.

You did very well by telling H that he had to set the boundries with OW.

it doesn't matter wether you are married or not if he wants the R with you than he can only have R with you.
NO ROOM FOR THREE IN MY BOOK.

You did well and at this point I think you have nothing to lose and everything to gain( your dinity, sanity, ).

HE is trying to cake eat and he is mad s He!! becuase he's not getting his way.

Great job. Now go dark and let him come to you. Then ACT AS IF don't pick up and be with him every minute take some time for you and turn down some of the things he's asking you to do. Let him think you are busy making your new life and maybe he can join you is he's good.

JAK


Last edited by jak58; 09/19/07 01:01 PM.
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