neph, you are so strong, you can do this. I think the legal sep is a good idea based on how H is acting...you have to protect yourself and your kids. and going dark is probably a really good idea, too. just hope he comes to his senses.
mk, col in CA is so scary I know I will never live there again. it is weird, knowing I'll never live in the town I grew up in...I love it, would live there again in a minute, but hell no I can't afford it, and unless I win the lottery (which I don't play, so will be hard to win), I could never swing it.
M-41 H-38 M-10 years, T-14 years Bomb-PA 3/19/07 Separated-6/7/07 Piecing/h back home 5/08 S-6 S-4 D-4
"Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is that little voice at the end of the day that says, 'I'll try again tomorrow.'"