Chrome - how right you are about not interested in finding the right person! I'm not in that frame of mind. I truly think men are scum and I'm sick and tired of being told that in order for me to be whole person, I have to have someone in my life. That's reading between lines here but that's the impression I get from some of the posts.
OT, I have a lot of childhood issues, but I'm still in IC so I'm working through those with him. The pamplet that I received from Ret stated that the program is designed for those that are committed in making their M work. It was all there in black and white. Have you been? If so, did it help your M or help you individually.
Look, my H had an A and while that's enough biblically and legally to divorce my H that isn't the entire reason. There are others. Yes, my H is remorseful, yes, he's tried and yes, I have tried. Have I tried everything? No, of course not. But you know what? I've tried enough things to find peace in my decision.
