My W actually agreed to do the questionaire the other week. She was a little uncomfortable with it, especially with questions like 'do you prefer when H holds your hand or...'
Told her to just focus on when times were good or what the ideal would be. I had thought before we did this that her LL was Quality Time as she had asked for that quite often during previous discussions. Turns out she is really Words of Affirmation (followed closely by Quality Time). When I tallied up results she agreed that Words of Affirmation really do make her feel good.
Now I just need to put this into action. BTW, my LL is also Physical Touch. I think I had a perfect score in that category.
