Thank you all for looking in. I have not posted because I have very little to report. This seems to be a very calm period (eye of the storm ??) . W seems a bit more settled on the outside and has no problem comming here and making herself at home. I would say that its in limbo and W is enjoying some family life and the ability to come and go here at home as well as retain her independent separate life. I am tolerating this for now while I ponder what I want. At the moment I am getting on with life but not moving on and thats frustrating me a little. The impatient side of me is wanting to push towards getting some resolution one way or the other so that I can move forward. Captain Sensible however is saying be patient , lets see where this goes. Friends think we have the strangest seperation they have ever seen because W still comes by and fixes meals , does washing and stuff , hangs out at times, I put that down to the success of Michelles book in that it got me to a place where I have saved at least our friendship. W still has stuff to work through in her own time and OM is still a wild card as they still work in the same store.
Me I have learnt lots. I can be happy by myself. I am enjoying life and making more time for friends as well as the kids.
