Her mother is helping her figure out what she wants.. supposedly her mother has been telling her that I'm going to take the kids away etc.
Man, that can really F with your wife's mind. My wife's friends all had her convinced that I would keep our S away from her. Bunch of BS. I had never even threatened her, even in the heat of battle to do that. Well needless to say, she was so persistent that that is what I would do, I, yes I filed for the D just so she could have her visitation rights on paper and enforceable by the courts. I had to do it just to prove to her and show her that I would never do that to her or our S. I know friends and family are important as a support group for our spouses, but they can for sure throw a wrench into things at time. I just wish sometimes they would think with logic instead of with worst case scenario type thinking. Or just keep their opinions to themselves.
“Do you want to be RIGHT or want to be LOVED” “You have to have a life to share a life with someone” “When you stop resisting, you start learning”