Well Jethro, let me put a slightly different spin on what I had posted to Sage today as it relates...
Not sure W is "in love" with you yet?
What can Jethro work on about himself to strengthen the attraction that draws her to you? For starters, I would suggest stop putting out there that what she is doing is being analyzed and evaluated. Stop making her feel she is being compared to some benchmark that she doesn't see. Its frustrating her about how she should act around you and hence is starting to drive a wedge between you. Instead focus on what Jetro can do to make himself feel better about what he is doing in wanting to strengthen his W's attraction in order to draw her closer.
Quoting jethro: I still want something more, guys. Will I ever get it?
Ironically, its letting go of those expectations you have that will attract her the most. Tear up the scorecard (the expectations ... the "if you would do this, I'd feel better putting the effort into M."), and offer yourself to her unconditionally. When you can achieve this is when you be best rewarded.
To help with this check out: www.deida.com and checkout the link to his book: "The Way of the Superior Man". He can seem a little of the wall at first, but give it a chance and it can become very enlightening.
