MC - nervous and need advice

[Jeanette1120]

And H was here and is mad at me for not wanting to "be friends."

I don't know what to do about that. I told him I would be cordial and cooperative, but that if I am moving on, I would envision us living separate lives.

I am quoting you as this is your thread, and I understand the want to be cordial and coopertative. You may find things somewhat different tomorrow. Please do not let what happens in the mediation to unerve you to much.

I also want to say what IMP said....holds so true. Go about your business, as this is what it is. Business. Leave your personal feelings at the door. Stand firm. Do not show intimidation or anything else. When it ocmes to this.....I'm sorry if this seems harsh but.......it's like the show Survivor. Outwit, outsmart & outplay. After that, if there is something that is meant to be......it will be.

Good luck tomorrow.....keep your cool. Oh, the wanting to be friends....thats nice. He can still be your friend after the agreements........thats if he really wanted to be friends.

Jeanette