Just wanted to say hello. I haven't been by lately.

Glad to see that you held back and let your W talk. It sounds like she needed that from you. Good job

I need to work on shutting up and listening to my H more when he opens up. He gives me a lot of info when I hold off or when I ask questions. I'm "working on it".

I understand what you mean about the bb. I have been wondering that myself. I like having my safe place. I don't know if I will ever share it with H. Not that I am in a place to worry about that just yet.

Me 47
Ex H 46
Bomb 9/02
D final 3/04
Ex H now married to OW

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This is surviving. There is no such thing as a normal life, there's just life. So get on with it and enjoy it!