Yeah, I'm doing fine. My H was over today, doing some badly-needed yardwork. The weather's great, so I decided to get out there and help him. Getting along fine, working on a common goal, and enjoying each other without the *pressure.*
The last few times he left, we didn't hug, but he sort of hesitated like I wanted to do/say something. I just keep it platonic, though. Not sure if it drives him crazy, or drives him closer to the clingy OW.
I'm just ridin' the waves...
I don't know if the *replacement* is permanent, though. Only time will tell...
probably makes him more comfortable each time he comes and there is no pressure.
That's what I'm hoping. I'm sure he can't help but notice the fact that I'm no longer preaching at him or trying to talk some *sense* into him (sparks a fight every time).
Sometimes he just holds me for a very long time, and sometimes it's strictly *hands-off.* I know he has conflicting emotions, so I just let him lead now. I never know what to expect.
