True, but then again, the past is the past. If we cannot let go and learn to forgive, we cannot open ourselves up to be loved either. Holding a grudge and loving unconditionally don't go hand in hand. We're human, affairs have happened for thousands of years, doesn't make them any less painful but they are what they are., a part of the world we live in. More often than not, we have to accept partial responsibility for why they happened, and take the steps necessary to assure they not happen again in the future if reconciliation is in the cards. Just the way it's gotta be or you have to move on to someone new I guess.
