I just knew it would be wonderful with H going away with you. Not to mention HE decided to go on his own, no pushing from you. That's great. Hey, 2 'slips' in 10 days, not too bad!!! It sounds like he really wants to come back but is so afraid of things falling apart again. I can't remember, is he still in contact with OW?
Ouch to the gym thing, I soooo know what you mean.