What is reasonable and what is not?

[cpolk]

Yeah it sucks!

This is easy for me say...not being in your shoes. I think that all this drama is bad for the pregnancy. Stress does all sorts of things to the body not much of it is good.

You should probably pick yourself up lean on a good friend if you need to and get those boots to walkin. With kids you are going to have to have contact with your H anyway. When it comes down to it make this be the part where if he comes back its on your terms.

From my experience over the past 4 months; bending over backward gets to where it really hurts. So I stopped...then she was forced to bend some. Now we are where we are; a better place. Not there yet, but maybe on the way.