What is reasonable and what is not?

[Startingover2]

I have been so positive in the past few weeks...really trying to be cheerful and meeting his needs. Even when I knew there was contact with OW. We have had a great progress making 2 weeks....until now. But I figured I could keep my mouth shut and live in emotional turmoil or bring it out.

The part that gets me is now I haven't heard from him since he left earlier after our blowout. No call. No text. Nothing. This is when I start to panic and feel like I should have never said anything. That I may have done something wrong. I have to keep telling myself I am not the one with the OW. I am not lying to him in any way or hiding anything. I am not being demanding by telling him I cannot deal with OW still being in the picure.

He did threaten in his anger this morning that if these accusations don't stop then he will be pulling back and I will need to do the contacting! What am I doing wrong here except being blindly stupid to even listen to him?

I wonder what he is thinking now? Is it the "oh no...I have to get my life together" or is it the "b**h! She isn't going to tell me I have to get rid of OW"