I've recently finished 'The 5 Love Languages' extremely inciteful. I learned that my Love Language is Physical Touch so this whole thing is obviously trying...I tell her 'no pressure' though; we're not counting down to anything. To the best of my guesses her Love Language is either or a mix of Personal Service or Words of Affirmation. She's not all that interested in taking the quiz to know for sure...but this is all new and somewhat uncomfortable. With time I'm sure.
I'll take a look at the book you suggested; I know in my case I 'was' in large majority the problem. Gives me focus on what to do in the future.
Thanks for your words.
Me36 W34 M13 K B10 B12 Bomb 06/07 Near WAW Me EA over W EA/PA over, contact with OM ended 08/07 W had to decide OM or Me; Still at home