Corri You don't have to say exactly what I said... put it in Lou words... but do you see my point? I see your point and intent.
Cac4 Lou! SHE doesn't ~get it~,......I suspect that she has no idea how her attitude and behaviors have hurt you. She gets it Cac4. I told her many times in mostly polite ways. I have to hold back to keep on track.
A couple days ago I said I really felt like leaving the M bed permantly, after we spent the evening together. She asked why I didn't want to sleep with her anymore.
I said, We sat on the couch from 6P to 10P (several days recently and in for several months) and now I am stroking your hair, back, and feet. I see you being attended to during many short semi romantic moments.
What I see is me doing the romancing and you taking it all in.
I didn't see much coming my way and although you said what I did was nice and thanked me for it, I don't see you doing much romancing in return. In fact during the last month, I approached you several times to touch you and have given you many back rubs because I know you like them and I have no problem doing it but someday I need you to initate affection towards me. I can't keep giving and giving. It just feels too lonely to give and give.
