Phoenix Rising? Maybe.

[cpolk]

Roger that to the last...for the taking responsibility for everything. I had said that from the beginning. Even though we are both responsible for our 100% (another R book); if I had done better (much better) with my part we never would have had this problem.

I knew I didn't have much to loose when I told her she was free to fly if she chose to. First, she truely thought I would have left once all was known; she was taken by suprise when the tables were turned and she realized that it would have to be her that would leave. Second, OM was long gone; he was transferred out of reach, had no intentions of leaving his W; and my W said she wouldn't have trusted him anyway, he was a habitual cheater.
Third, in the 4.5 months I was deployed she made no tangible plan for leaving or made funds available.

Grant it she harbors resentment toward herself and me for the above; its part of what she working on with 'fixing her first'. She seems to be coming along; though we all have a waise to go. How does it go...put one foot in front of the other...right?