Not a whole lot of contact between H and I since he went off on me on the phone a month ago.
Three weeks ago I had to meet him at his job to pick up child support even though he told me he would mail it to me. There was no verbal communicatin except a thank you from me.
When he does call me I let it go straight to VM. H phoned me this past Saturday to let me know he was going to give me child support this upcoming Friday. H said he could drop it off, mail it, or I could come by his job to pick it up.
I waited a couple days and text him telling him to just mail it.
Today H calls cell and I let it go straight to VM. H was not very nice. He told me was going to give me X amount of dollars and "I advise you to pay the loan with that money....I strongly advise you to do that." WTF!! I didn't respond as much as I wanted to. Again with the I will mail it to you or drop it off.
H calls (got VM) a couple of hours later asking for a couple of his NFL shot glasses and an NFL clock. H said he would pick them up when he drops off the money. I no longer have any of his things in my house. H has been gone nearly a year so why all of a sudden is he wanting these things? I texted him informing him that I don't have them, and to mail me the money because I will not be home this weekend.
I don't know what game he's playing (if any) but I'm not going to get dragged into it anymore.
Feel better now...just needed to vent.
M:43 H:37 D14 (ours) D18 (mine) S22 (mine) S18 (his) S: 10/2004 Bomb: 2/15/05 In/out of home Living with OW #4 Talks of D for 2-1/2 years