Jethro, I'd like to think these feelings are quite common. If not, then there's some kind of weird virus going around Piecing!
I've been having those same thoughts and feelings. That's what exploded out of me at our C session last week. When we got there, C took one look at me and made a volcano analogy!
Sage has some very good points there.
I think once we come down from the frenetic rush of trying to save our M's, we, the one's who did all the work initially, start to reassess.
We start to really think about our own needs. And whether or not they can be met in our current M's.
I, too, sometimes feel myself pining for an R in which I am really WANTED, desired, etc. Are we asking for too much too soon? Probably, but the feelings are there, none-the-less .
Perhaps this is good? I think it took my H aback to hear that I wasn't "perfectly happy" with the way things were going. But I think it spurred some motivation on his part.
(I know, I know....why do they need such to just LOVE US?? )
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