marriage isn't about "finding the right person", particularly when you arent "the right person" for someone else right now.
Again, how do you know? On what authority can you make that statement?
I make it based on her decision, that she just posted.
Her decision is not, "I've tried everything, and it doesnt work". Her decision was, "well, I was GOING to try something, but I just feel too hurt to try it, or even just learn more about it (for one weekend). So I'm not going to try any more".
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D. Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M. 3 wonderful sons caught in the middle