Who do you think you are? Do not tell me what you suggest because I don't give a rat's *&@ what you think. You have no idea what I've been through and and the pride I took in my marriages. They, my hs, will tell you that they treated me like *&*^. And those are not my words, those belong to them.
Dom, I resent your tone. It's people like you that keep people like us on this never ending roller coaster. This board is all about helping people find their direction. I've found mine and I'm sorry it doesn't fit with what you think.
And, I'll have you know that I am in fact the marrying kind and I happen to be a very loving, caring and faithful wife. Both of my Hs have said that they were lucky to have me.