At times when you aren't feeling strong.. go for a little walk. That's what I do.. I feel it's better to go for a stroll then to sob in front of her. Then when you are feeling confident you can apply the principles. This has two advantages one she always sees the calm you and two you get a much needed break.
H 30 (me) W 28 Married 9 yrs 2 children EA found out on 7/5/07 ILYBNILWY 8/25/07 The unexamined life is not worth living -Socrates