Robin, I suppose there's no alternative. When I say it gets easier, I'm saying it is getting easier for me to remain distant from my W rather than put in the effort it takes to make our R work.
My W just called me to check in. I have to give her credit for this because she's checking in to let me know she's not with OM. She does this quite often, and I appreciate it. Also, she told me about arrangements she's making for this Friday to get the kids some babysitting. I asked for what, and she reminded me that it's our anniversary (our 11th). I guess I just forgot. I don't really know what to do. I don't feel very celebratory.
I really want to tell her how upset I was about what she told me Saturday, but I'm not sure that I should...