HI Bryan I have to laugh about you suggesting I sex it up some since that is the conclusion I came to this weekend after reading so many internet sites that my eyes were crossed. I need to make myself more appealing to him since that is one of the things he said about us. We grew apart and were more like friends so that right there tells me I need to make myself look better for him etc. So that is my new plan. Of course I decide this on Sunday when I did not feel well and had a jammie day and looked horrible and he shows up that night to see our S. So I did not exactly start off on the right foot but today I am dressed to the nines and ready to see what happens. I hope that helps us out some plus it makes me feel better about myself and I have gotten a ton of complements today at work so I think this is good.
I know what you mean about not knowing what works and what doesn't work. I mean I feel like I walk on egg shells around him all the time. I just try to go with the flow and be neutral. If it appears that he wants me to be happy then I try to be and get excited for him. It is really quite confusing but I think that Notgivnup has a point that we just have to focus on our goal and keep that in mind. It will get harder before it gets easier but we have to just keep the end result in mind no matter what.
