I am hanging in here. Just waiting for the LBS anger to subside and be able to move forward. He says he wants full separation and to date others. Its his turn to want his space and I am just letting him have it. Even though I never felt like he stopped trying to control me, even this seems like one more attempt to pressure and control me. But I am not letting it bother me. Going on with my life...GAL'ing, and getting some hobbies. Trying to find out who I am now and what makes me happy. Really concentrating on me and not worrying so much about what others think.
We will see where it leads. H still going to MC, even though he said he wanted to quit. Holding steady. I am the one who started this but we both need to fix it.
Me: 30 EX-H: 37 DD: 5 Separated 6/07. MC for months, EX-H quit MC. Divorce Final 8/14/08. Trying to move on with new life.
