Yes, hang in there 789. She is going to question her decision. Have confidence and faith. This will pass. Show her she has not made a mistake. Keep up the 180's. GAL, and act "as if". Your patience and perserverence are crucial here. You can do it!
And do not hesitate to vent with us as much as you want
Me29 H33 D9 months S2 S9(previous R) Sep 8-19-07 I file 11-5-07 H home (Retro) 2-15-08 "Today is the tomorrow of yesterday." -- S9
October 12th is the next one in our area, I already sent an email for the info. It isn't even the sex I am worried about, I just would like to feel that I really exist in her world, if that makes sense.
I think you will have a different marriage after that weekend!
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."
Some excellent points above. She may be testing you in a closed enviornment, seeing how you are really. When she would observe your changes before, maybe she had a nagging doubt that you were putting on a show for her. With you there, she has more time to see what you're really like and maybe that's the last bit of reassurance she needs to really commit. You know this but I'll say it anyway because it always helps me to hear something even if I already know it: you're on course, you're doing great, don't give up before the miracle happens.
Well I am still at her apartment . I cannot say it has gotten any better yet. She did go with me to a rock concert friday night and that night and every night since then she has given me a hug before going to bed, she also has been apologizing about me sleeping on the sofa. I did cheat on sunday night, when she gave me a hug, I snuck a kiss on her cheek , she smiled but did not say anything.
Another move probably not out of the DB book, I got her tickets to a Justin Timberlake concert for next tuesday, he is her favorite singer for the year, lol. I haven't told her yet. I guess in a way I am also re-living my youth, on saturday tickets go on sale for Van Halen, not gonna miss that concert . Our first MC appointment is for tomorrow afternoon, I can honestly say I am scared to hell about it. Guess I will know soon enough how the first meeting turns out. Other than that it seems to just be another day with no changes.
M 41 W 33 S8 S17 Bomb 3/11/07 S 3/28/07 New beginning? 8/31/07
good luck with MC, 789! stay focused, stay strong...my friend swears that the first 4 appts are usually tough, but it does get better.
glad things are status quo, that's not a bad thing. its a work in progress, right? and good for you for sneaking that kiss...I'm sorry, I think women in general like a little assertiveness in their men.
M-41 H-38 M-10 years, T-14 years Bomb-PA 3/19/07 Separated-6/7/07 Piecing/h back home 5/08 S-6 S-4 D-4
"Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is that little voice at the end of the day that says, 'I'll try again tomorrow.'"
I'm sorry, I think women in general like a little assertiveness in their men.
I totally agree with that but have found it to be a double edged sword. W likes me to be assertive when she wants me to be. Other times, not so much. Gets a little confusing to a simple minded man . Good luck with the MC, 789. You've got good movememnt, keep it rolling.
It appears as if things are going great. I am so happy for you. Great news on the snuck kiss. I am sure the MC will be tough at first but it will only get better. Good luck and keep us posted. You give me hope that things can turn around in time.
, she smiled but did not say anything. 
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