I hope that these changes you are making in yourself are for you and not to provoke a change of heart in your wife.
Yes she will notice these changes, but if they are not for you, because you want to make these changes for you, then they will fade, and she will also see that.
Any thoughts about your insurance? Glad you have it. Or did you mean any thoughts about her wanting out of the marriage?
She is still around right? making plans that reach into next year...that is pretty impressive for an MLCer. Do not read too much into the actions of the MLCer, until those actions are consistent...much like your changes you are making.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
