LMAO "I HATE WOMAN!!! You are to funny. You love the heck out of your W.
Jar, you did great with the conversation. You kept your composure and even controlled where the conversation went. All that and no anger. Good for you.
She on the other hand lost control and her composure. She said things to you that I do not believe she means, but said them out of her anger defense mechanism. You know what anger defense mechanism I'm talking about. You know the one that used to control you in the past and now you are beginning to control it.
I am glad you put your foot down with her concerning OM. You want nothing to do with him, NOTHING!!! and she needs to know that. In my opinion if you listen to her about him or act as if you are listening to her about him then that tells her you are ok with him in a way and that her behavior is acceptable. So, don't give in to her need to discuss OM with you.
“Do you want to be RIGHT or want to be LOVED” “You have to have a life to share a life with someone” “When you stop resisting, you start learning”