It's interesting that his response is the typically male "If she isn't bitchin', everything is okay" response. Makes for some classic walk-away-wives.
I suggest you do keep talking to him, and that you tell him that you intend to bring it up with him whenever it is really bothering you. You need to get him to be in agreement with you that dealing with all this in the open is the way to fix it, that ignoring it will only make it worse.
See what you can do to make him a participant in helping you with your pain. It will also help rebuild trust in the relationship. Make it a project for both of you.
You are quite a find, LFL.
All the best, -NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
