Thanks DaveJ, Adding the space she needed is what is holding things together right now I think. Its got us to the point we are at which is far from being fixed but significantly better than where we started. We get along day to day really pretty good. Not much physical contact which is the hard part for me. But she's there and participating. What else can I ask for.
Between Jun 07 and the 3rd week in Aug she threw her hands up several times saying she's done and outa here. One of the hardest things for her was realizing that she was the one that would have to go...I'm not going anywhere. She's still here.
Me36 W34 M13 K B10 B12 Bomb 06/07 Near WAW Me EA over W EA/PA over, contact with OM ended 08/07 W had to decide OM or Me; Still at home