Grace, thanks for the info. It seems that when i have been doing things around the house that i have put off for a long time, she seems to respond positively. When i do the GAL, she seems very distant and ticked off. Last nite after dinner, my D and her boyfriend left for the evening, and I changed clothes and just walked out of the house to do my nightly walk. When i came back i proceded to do some work for my business and i got the silent treatment. Thats ok, because she has plenty of time now to think. I have been taking things day by day, and i refuse to let her get me down. The interesting thing is she still asks me if i need anything when she goes shopping, and approached me last week about our health insurance changing for the next year. She said that we need to decide what we wanted to do, as the cost is increasing. The insurance is through my W's employer, as hers is better than what i can get. We decided to keep the current plan. The major confusing part is that if she truly wanted out of this relationship, i would think that she wouldn't be interested in me or anything at this point, whether i need stuff at the store, or whether the insurance will continue for the next year. Any thoughts?
