Thank you--am going out right now to get the book.

I agree with what you're saying--just seem to be having trouble applying it. I'm strong one second, then she texts or calls (I haven't spoken to her, and only answer texts that ask a direct question)and I'm back to square one. She's left me a letter at my parents' house...ugh. More pain.

Thanks for the advice. If I hear it often enough it may actually sink in...

"In every marriage more than a week old, there are grounds for divorce. The trick is to find, and continue to find, grounds for marriage." -- Robert Anderson