I think I might look into relationship building skills. Granted the last 3 days we have been together and things are normal. It is almost like he wishes he never said what he said. Sometimes things are said in the heat of the moment. In any case, if he is internalizing his unhappiness it will eventually become to much and he will blow, this I am sure of.

Marriage is hard work and you can only get out of it what you put in. With daily routines things can become boring. If I were to take myself out of the picture and objectively look in I would see that we need a little spark thrown in to get those flames burning again. I need to change things up a little. I am going to have to become very creative since whatever I come up with cannot cost $.

Any ideas?

BI, I really need to start my own thread. I have been off this board for so long that I forgot how. Pardon my huge hijack, I do not mean to make light of your sitch in any way. Hugs, Mama