Now do you all see why I couldn't figure out what the hell was wrong with me all those years of rejection?

It took two years of IC for me to "get it" that my H has some serious issues, not me! But it completely drained my self esteem bank. But its coming back. Not so sure about the H though.


Me: 30
EX-H: 37
DD: 5
Separated 6/07. MC for months, EX-H quit MC.
Divorce Final 8/14/08.
Trying to move on with new life.