I think the shopping spree is a test. In the past I've blocked his ATM card when he went out of control. I haven't done so in a long time, but when he picked up S2 he asked "Does the card still work?" He has been using it. He knew. However, he asks, then goes haywire. He's basically out of money. He doesn't realize that some of his bills are going to come out of the acct automatically within the next few days (he never did the bills).
Oh, well. It's time for him to be a grown up and deal with his own stuff.
My L said there is nothing I can do to keep kids away from OW unless she is a pedifile or on drugs.
Me29 H33 D9 months S2 S9(previous R) Sep 8-19-07 I file 11-5-07 H home (Retro) 2-15-08 "Today is the tomorrow of yesterday." -- S9