Thoughts on phone calls

[notgivnup]

Bryan, I know it is really difficult. You must try to 'act as if'. Focus on your goal. Do not let her actions of uncertainty, confusion, etc. change your behavior. It is that tenacity and unwavering belief in yourself and the outcome you want that will draw her back.

I am not saying it is easy. No one here says it is easy. But if you want her back that is what it is going to take.

Keep reading different posts. Whether you are religious or not there are some really good posts on the Prayer Circle which talk about things getting harder before they get easier. You will be tested, by God, the Universe, whatever you think of the Higher Power, to be certain you want what you are going after and you believe that it can be yours and that you are willing to do what it takes. God can only do FOR you that which he can do THROUGH you.

Another resource that I found FABULOUS is The Secret. Have you watched the video? It has transformed my approach to life and partly why I can believe reconciliation is still possible when on the surface you wouldn't think so. Check out http://www.thesecret.tv. I am in no way affiliated with it, so it isn't like I am promoting something I'll benefit from. But it will help with your focus. Order it today. It will change your life.

Hang in there, keep reading and posting. And never, never, never give up.