Fired b/c of an Affair? Redeemed Career Possible?

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just head on the radio (or tv) how people who internalize their hurts and keep it under wraps are ticking time bombs, that they've been avoiding confrontation for so long that all these feelings are building up.
Does your H have time to unwind alone? I try to give my H time, we pay sitter per week so there is a day he is off that my dd still goes to sitter to my H can do something on his own without kids around.

Have you tried consolidating your debts? not the best solution but one we've used 2x already was to get one of those ccs that have 0% for a year and gives us more time to pay 4 our debt without paying finance charges.

If he isn't ready to see a T nor C there is no reason why you can't keep on reading good positive books--eing of sound mind will help you stay afloat. The book "the wounded woman" is a beutiful christian book that is helping me lots now.
Tell him to be honest w/me even if he thinks what he'll say will hurt you, that you rather know that have him humor you. Men have such a hard time talking about what's bothering them mostly because they think we'll used their words as weapons later or we wont' forget what they say if we dont' like it. Though true :P you must be able to listen without condenmation, even your body language can betray you without saying a word.