Its so hard to watch. My H is totally not acting his age, he is 35 and thinks he is 21 all over again. YUCK. When he goes to bars, I wonder if people see through him and realize he is an old man. ;\)

When do you get to see DD? Today I hope. And yes, stability is the key. When we talk of separation, I always push that the kids should be at home as much as possible, and I think they should sleep here every single night. If that means H has to drive 'home' at 1am, so be it. He is making this choice to possibly leave.