Sitch is settling down, though I know the sitch at work looms over him overall he's acting almost like his old self again. We barely see each other during the weekend, but he's been good at calling me when he has to stay over (job requirements, still give me the jibi-jibies). But I've noticed he uses more pet names and calls me sweety, txts me then calls me to talk to me when he'll be late. We are moving forward 1 inch at at time, but each step is worth 10 for me, he still is going to T and having a hard time applying what the T says (the T tells him he still needs to work on expressing himself w/me).
He tells me when he gets the "unlisted" calls he doesn't answer (we belive is op) but now there are barely any, so I guess she is understanding it is over.
So, I take baby steps forward, taking my time, letting go of my fear, and letting the old hurts dry and heal and it doesn't consume me anymore as it used to, I dont' let my mind wallow in the details anymore, and now my mind knows to move on quick when I get those thoughts, it's amazing
Thanks 4 checking on me guys
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.