"he does say that I am a good mom, at least he's never used that. what hurts is he has decided I wasn't a good wife. its bizarre the stuff he would throw out on that front, because it was like he had forgotten every single good thing in our R, every thing I had done for/with him. he had forgotten that just a year earlier he was bragging about me to his buddies. I think this is why I like the fog analogy so much...it just seems to describe him so well, its like he is in a fog, and doesn't see things clearly anymore. doesn't see our life as it was anymore, just sees the things that were not so good."
Yes, yes, and yes!!! H uses 'always' and 'never' way too much when discussing our past together, but I hope its the fog. Remember, I was told this was MY marriage, I got everything I wanted, he got nothing.
Glad your not feeling as much pain, be careful with your chest, but enjoy your sexy voice.......
