Now I've done it... again

[nephartiti]

Goodness, he is on a shopping spree. Took $260.00 out of the ATM yesterday afternoon, then another $40 later. Spent about the same on Saturday.

Is this some kind of test? Is he just pushing to see how far he can go? I feel like he pushed and pushed until I had no choice but to tell him to leave. Now I've held back on the bank accounts and everything. I decided to just let him be. Now he's clearly emptying it out. Maybe he's just seeing if I've really given him free reign or if I'm going to come after him and try to "mother" him for his behavior. As far as money, I'm not going to talk to him. I'll put the CD into savings as backup for overdraw. Hopefully he doesn't notice. I'm not going to talk to him about the kids either. I am going to see my lawyer and get some paper work together regarding the kids. Then I'm going to wait for contact from him.

The way I see it, he lied to me (again) and he lied to his family. Maybe it wasn't a big planned conspiracy, but it still wasn't right. Maybe it was a big planned conspiracy. I just don't know.