Quoting MAL:What would you hope to gain by asking that?
I'm gauging the situation, MAL. I've done this the whole time I've DB'd. By pinging her on certain issues or probing with specific questions, I'm able to determine where we stand.
So, your next question would naturally be, what did I determine from this question? Right? Well, simply put, I have work ahead of me. I think the more my W gravitates towards settling in with me, the more she will no longer miss the OM. I also think that I will begin to hear those ILYs too. Point is, we're just not there yet. I may see the light at the end of the tunnel, but it's only a glimmer.
Quoting SB:And hey, "sometimes" is a lot better than "constantly"!
Yup!
Quoting Calystra:I'm not saying we don't bring it up at all, it's just that we don't continue to constantly bring it up.
I agree that there's a time and place for these conversations and sometimes they happen at inopportune moments.
Quoting LL:ok so tell me really how different is "sometimes" from "less and less"
Ahh...some hair-splitting semantics... Difference is, saying "less and less" suggests that she's getting over it, where saying "sometimes" does not suggest the same thing. You see? And you're right about me wanting to hear what I want to hear. Perhaps she did mean what I wanted to hear.
Quoting LL:and I'd bet that it would be less and less if someone would stop asking about him too...
