hmmm, wonder if the MLC is still there, or he feels so pressured by the financial problems that he hasn't given space in his heart to love. My C put it in a way I could understand when I told him how my H had no feelings for me but he could feel compassion for the op's pain "right now, you represent reality (responsabilities, home, bills, etc) and he's having a hard time coming back to that realm.
When you put it that way I guess I do represent reality (and our reality sucks right now). He says he feels like he has a lot of underlying rage; like he is ready to explode. That really worries me too. Therapy is out of the question, he just won't go. I got rid of all of my relationship books, even DB. :(, any ideas on what I can do.
