Is he making advances? Are they falling flat with you? Is he not making them at all?
Does he get it right every once in a while and then go back to things that don't work with you?
Yes, he will make his once a month advance. Depending on my mood at the time, it will either be great or it will just fall flat and then we wait until next month. Ugh. You see the problems I have with this I'm sure. It's just not coming from any place of desire and feels more like a monthly chore. I'm stubborn too so sometimes I'd rather just go without the sex than have crappy sex. But that attitude leads to all sorts of other problems so I need to just stop doing that. But it's hard to change old habits.
so sometimes I'd rather just go without the sex than have crappy sex. But that attitude leads to all sorts of other problems so I need to just stop doing that. But it's hard to change old habits.