Quoting LL:if she forgets all about him she wont be able to make a statement like this one.
Okay, I never said "forget." Let me clarify that I don't want her to forget what got us into this mess, but I also don't want her missing him. There's a difference...
Quoting LL:when will thoughts of om leave your mind???
Don't know, LL... It's actually less about OM than it is that she had an A. Does this make sense? I guess I'm getting fewer pictures in my head, but it is replaced with a general sadness about the whole mess.
Quoting Abby:Why did you ask this? IMHO her reply was to hurt you more than help you.
Abby, she actually said, "Why are you asking me that?" before she responded. I don't think she told me what she did to be hurtful. I think she just wants to be honest because for a long time she wasn't (hmmm...have to think about that). Frankly, if she had told me that she didn't I'd probably be more suspicious. I guess the response I'm looking for is, "A little, but I miss him less and less with each passing day."
Quoting KAW:I envy that your W is willing to share with you her feelings, no matter how brutually honest.
