Quote: This led me to ask if she still missed OM. She told me she did sometimes. Errrr
Why did you ask this? IMHO her reply was to hurt you more than help you. You may have to show her you trust her before you do. That way she can say I should behave better b/c he trusts me.
You feel your R is stuck. Maybe do something you have talked about for a long time but just have done. Or do something that is so not a J thing to do. Surprise her. Doing something off the wall may be the incentive she needs to get out of her rut.
