Now what? Wait it out?

[lester]

Yeah it par for the course. Here's the truth from Luke 17:33, "Whosoever shall seek to save his life shall lose it; and whosoever shall lose his life shall preserve it" In otherwords, when you pursue something you loose it including happiness. If we pursue our spouses we loose them. Likewise when they seek happiness at the expense of everything else they loose both happiness and everything else.

For kicks, affairs typically are 6-18mos. But that's a statistic your mileage may vary.