[/quote]I have no idea what to do. He would probably lie at first, then get defensive and tell me that he and I are not married and he can do what he wants. [quote]
SO2,
No, you are not married but, that does not give him the right to take advantage of you. HE is cake eating and in MOP you need to set boundries for you and the children. If you don't he may very well continue on this path of having everything the way he wants and never make any decisions.
I wouldn't let him know you snooped, keep that one to yourself. I would however let him know that you know he's still in contact with her and that you will not tolerate it. THen go dark again. No arguing, just state the facts. But that is ultimatly your decision. Just think about what you will put up with and for how long.
If he is calling her sweety then there is probobly more going on than you think.
JAK
You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez
