Outstanding overall, interesting enough one of the big hurdles in our recovery has been my W. does not have that "feeling" for me. Let me just say since I was on the other side earlier this year. You can get the feeling back, but you have to "want" it. I mean want it. If she does that, she can get it back.
Thanks GoodFight, I know that she can get the feelings back, problem is trying to convince her that this is true and that it is worth the time and effort.
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I recommend alcohol at the house as a substitute to help get that "feeling" back. Romantic stuff also! I am confident it will get better for you guys just keep it up! Glad to see some good news.
Alcohol definitely helps. Problem is she seems a bit troubled that we sometimes need external influences like this to get things moving. She wants it to happen naturally. We discussed this last night. I told her that it is going to be difficult to overcome this hurdle as we've been living like roommates for the past two months. Very little physical touch. How to go from this to spontaneous and passionate? Especially when W is so hesitant to touch.
The wedding the other night was good (partly because of alcohol). Nice slow dancing and quite a bit of kissing. I just need to get this to continue under normal circumstances.
