chicki's drama cont/ 3 I'm feeling like the OW ?

[waw1978]

This is really sad but I wouldn't care if H was using me for sex!

We have barely had any in 3 years. When he announced last week that he was going to start dating I really chuckled because boy is the new woman going to be in for a shock...then again a good friend mentioned maybe its not women he will be dating...

I have to admit the idea of actually getting some for myself has been very entertaining but I feel that would ruin any chance of reconcillation I might have with H down the road. He is a jealous controlling creep and this would certainly paint me with a scarlet letter in his mind.

Anyway, you are an adult and as long as you are okay with the fact that it is what it is, then I don't thing there is anything wrong with you having relations with your husband...who hasn't had the "sex with an ex". Quite common. But I wouldn't put any eggs in that basket while he is still seeing the GF/OW. Just shows that if he will cheat on you, he will cheat on her and this seems to be a pattern. Has he had any IC? (sorry if this was mentioned before). Not that people don't change just he seems to be caught up in this particular pattern. Just don't get hurt in the process.

PS: Please be careful...who knows where this OW has been when she isn't with your H...eeewww. Sorry just had to throw that out there.